Who should Propose First, The Lady or The Guy?

Over time in life, I have heard a lot of people mostly guys, said it is very wrong for a lady to propose to a guy they are going out with, maybe, because "The guy is shy or don't have the confidence to make the first move".

Some said, you can't just go around as a lady telling guys you like them unless you are sure of what you really want and how far you want to go with what you want.

I have also heard it from someone that a lady can go all the way to show that she likes a particular man of her choice so far she can attract his attention.

BUT IN MY OPINION!

If man wants to truly marry you, then He will have to propose and take every necessary actions to make what He wanted happen. If He doesn't, then I think It's either He's truly not ready (which is up to the lady to determine if He have enough grace) or He's simply not the one for you. Most of you know the answer deep down inside of you, YES I am very sure, but you choose to ignore it for many different reasons.

We all have to be honest with ourselves and accept our reality. Sometimes we spend years with someone who we should have never held on to for that long. His unwillingness to marry you is at times the confirmation that you refuse to acknowledge. It is better to walk away and prepare yourself for the man who will want to marry you, then for you to propose to the man who just isn't prepared to take that step. At the end of the day the choice to propose is still yours anyways, because it's your life!

MEANWHILE NOTE***

If you want a man who is able to lead you and take initiative on things in life and your relationship, then don't take that responsibility away from him by deciding to propose. You set the stage and the wrong standards by taking this action. He either mans up, or you have to accept that at this moment He isn't man enough for you Shikenah!.

Like I have said, this is just my opinion and it's open for criticism or commendation.

That Ruth and Esther did it in the Bible does that make it right?

WHAT'S YOURS AND WHAT DO YOU THINK?

A million dollar question you said???.